Monday, 31 October 2011

Untitled (Cant think of anything right now!)

Hey people, Its been a long road. I have been MIA over the last 2 months. Sorting out my life and basically trying to find my feet is different facets of my life. Its been awkward. Some Nollywood type scenario going on in my world.... luckily lets say I am positive there is a rainbow somewhere.
Recently, I discovered that a gentleman I was involved with(He was lying about his situation) was getting married and the only reason he isnt still married is because there was an accident (that claimed one life) a few days to the wedding and it was called off. I found out I knew the bride. I have known her for over 16 years and she filled me in on the details. I wasnt going to rat him out. I wished them all the best. To this day he denies he was going ahead with the wedding. He said he was actually planning to call it off when i found out he actually had a fiancee and was leading me on. Which makes me believe he orchestrated the accident. If na you wetin you go think?!

The out of nowhere, I had a nasty bout of food posioning that almost crippled me. Nasty, Nasty, Stuff!

Over the last 10 days there has been tragedies in my family. We lost a staff ( in a ghastly car accident) who has worked for us for over 15 years (some relatives are still in hospital from the aftermath of the accident) and last week my younger brother passed away under very bizzare circumstances I dont want to talk about. Talk about Nollywood. Naija style Drama. Anyway, lets say we encounter circumstances that make us get close to God and you realize its a very evil world out there.... so its either you are with the forces of Light or forces of Darkness. This is like the script of a tacky nollywood movie. Just too weird...

Then some sunshine came into my life amidst all these chaos. I got my puppy. A mix between a Westie and a Maltese. She is so precious yet very naughty and causing me sleepless nights (I am not enjoying having poop all over my, office floor, bed and pee on my carpet). Potty training is much harder than i expected. Now i get the full meaning of 'dog breath'....Chei.. Lordy, i need to brush her teeth/tongue/gums every now and then. I named her Latte. I couldnt think of anything else (that hasn't been taken) so white so I decided on one of my favourite coffees.

My Birthday comes up in exactly 3 weeks. I don't want to celebrate. I just want to sit down with one good friend, have a glass of wine and reflect on my life. Its just been too weird. Thank heavens I have you guys and I can come here and let my worries on this platform. Now back to doggie mummy duties. Much love y'all:-D

M'je

20 comments:

Madame Sting said...

I'm so sorry about the loss of your brother. Thank God for ur cute puppy. They always make everything feel better.

Tee~Blahnick said...

May God comfort you and your family. It is well in Jesus Name.

LadyNgo said...

sorry to hear about all these things dear :(

hope you feel better physically, mentally and spiritually soon

Mamuje said...

Thanks guys.... I am just dazed. Things like these never happen to me or in my family so its just surreal.

Vyvyka said...

wow! this is all too much for one person. So sorry...I pray God grants you the strength and grace to come out stronger. Meanwhile, enjoy ur 'doggie mummy' duties...lol

Gidan Nodza said...

Now I feel so terrible about being glad when I saw your blog update notification.
I am so sorry about the tragedies and I know that you will surely come out stronger and certainly wiser (directs evil eyes at ex manfriend)
Its never easy to loose a family member and I pray that Almighty Allah (SWT) gives you and your family the strength to bear the loss.
Stay strong.
Cheers.

Sisi Yemmie ™ said...

Sorry about everything babes...better days ahead

Anya Posh said...

wow...so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope the rest of your family is doing alright. take it easy. and that guy's gist is too scary mehn, what the heck! nawa, na God dey keep pesin for naija.

Miss Enigma a.k.a UnderCover07 said...

My heart felt condolences on the loss of your brother! May his soul rest in peace...and may the good Lord grant u and ur family the fortitude to bear the loss. (((hugs))) dear.

PS: i Love the name latte!!!!

HoneyDame said...

Wow!!! That's a whole lots going on. May the Lord be with you and the families involved..It shall be well
I love that name....Latte..very unusual yet posh

aloted said...

wow..

so sorry to hear about your brother..and the staff that passed away. may the Lord continue to comfort your family.

nawa for that man o..thank God u found out on time.

ur puppy is cute!

Ginger said...

So sorry to hear of your losses Mamuje. May their souls rest in perfect peace.

Yay for Latte! hope he keeps you joyous!.

Onose said...

So sorry to hear about your losses!!!

I am praying for you. I really am. Happy New month.

Unveilinggold said...

May God strenghten and comfort you and your family. I pray God heals the ones in the hospital..Hugs

LucidLilith said...

Heeyah! Mamuje na wah oh. You are one strong person. Things like this come in waves. Just take a deep breath and count your blessings.

Btw - your puppy is just adorable. And yes potty training is hard. Just remember they are like babies....you have to take them out every two hours to pee and poop. Keep also keep them on a feeding schedule. It will help you predict when they need to go out.

When are you coming back to ATL?

SHE said...

God be with the rest of your family.

Cute puppy there!

Toinlicious said...

Hugs for you

Muse Origins said...

Wow! Some guys! I would have told, sorry to say. That dog is the cutest!

Adiya
http://museorigins.com

Amy said...

My dear you and your entire family will be in my prayers. Please try to stay strong and surround yourself with loved ones who bring you peace and joy to get through this tough time.

Mamuje said...

You guys are the best. Thanks for every kind and soothing words. Much love everyone xox