Monday, 4 March 2013

The future for Mamuje...

Happy New year guys...or should i just go ahead and wish everyone a happy Easter in advance?.

A lot of new developments has been happening in Mamuje world.

Your very own Mamuje is engaged to be married *Some of my friends will find out through this medium*.... Well..I wasn't very sure what I wanted. As time went on I realised that I may not find anyone as perfectly matched for me. I am someone who guarded her independence and single status jealously....the first couple of weeks after saying the BIG YES were the toughest. I felt trapped, I hid the ring in my bedside drawer... the whole submissive manual malarkey, the name change, the was overwhelming...It's still overwhelming... one minute I was sure he was the one, the next minute I would burst into hot tears. Ogbanje moves. Thankfully, Mr man is VERY understanding. I have come to terms with the whole marriage thing. I believe its a beautiful thing.

Mr Man Bio- He is KIND, loving, humble, KIND, understanding, mature, he has great family values,  thoughtful, no-nonsense, strict, funny, GOD-FEARING, he is patient (he chased me on full throttle for 14 months),  he supports my dreams and goals, he is responsible and basically thinks I am the best thing since sliced bread. He makes me want to be a better person. Oh...and he accepts the reality that I SNORE like a plane crash in mid air. Nothing unrealistic or superficial about this one *huge sigh of relief*

Now unto my family saga...and the natives who want to have everything their way.  They want to buy expensive aso-ebi, trust them. They want a carnival, I want a budget destination wedding with 10 people MAX.... let's see how things unfold... Hahahahaha

Lets say, all I care about right now is the life after the wedding. The marriage proper. The ceremony isn't my cup of tea really. I haven't started any proper planning.... Yet, I have PLANNED my honeymoon. Hahahahhahaha. Yeah, my life is one big holiday. Looking forward to the rest of my life with Mr man.



Luciano said...

God bless you

Mamuje said...

Thanks Luciano :-)

Toinlicious said...

Congratulations M'je! So Mr. Man will be enjoying your culinary skills #jealousmuch

Ego Du Jour said...

Congrats on the engagement! Hope wedding planning isn't too stressful with family pulling in all sorts of directions!

Mamuje said...

Toin- Mr Man's eating habits is another blog for discussion.

Ego- Thank you... I am not goiing over the top with wedding prep. I am calm. We dont want anything huge, if our families want to go gaga, we will let them.

Gidan Nodza said...

OMGoodness!!! CONGRATULATIONS. He sounds like the perfect type for you, someone to hold the strings of your kite. I am happy for you girl... Please dont skimp on the pictures :D

Myne Whitman said...

Oh oh oh...grinning from ear to ear! Congrats, Mamuje. The way you described him, so sweet. Some of us underestimate kindness and being real :)

I wish you all the best in the wedding planning, never easy, and the honeymoon. More importantly, for the marriage too. Hugs!

Anonymous said...

Congrats!!!! No wonder you've been so quiet lately lol. You've been busy :-).

MPB said...

Congrats! does mean you will blog more frequently :)

Nutty J. said...

awwww....congratulations my dear... this is good news.


Anonymous said...

Funny enough, I had a feeling you will be announcing this soon, big congratulations to you! I'm at the point too where I'm like "OK, maybe I'm expecting way too much from a human being" LOL. So happy for you girl! My, we are quite alike, I think I may hide my ring too and cry hahaha! Best news today!

lucidlilith said...

Congrats oh. So happy and excited for you. It is okay to be nervous/ambivalent. marriage no be joke. Also forget small wedding and get ready for a jamboree. Life is good my sister. Keep us posted.

Ginger said...

I knew it!!!!! Congratulations Mamuje!

Golly I'm gonna miss those "finding Mr Right" posts. I was on the phone with a gf when i saw your post, I just screamed and excitedly told her.
All the best with planning - i trust you to go overboard (huff) no be you?

Mamuje said...

HAHAHAHAAHAHHAHA....even my trusted Sisters do not believe me. I promise I wont go overboard. Mr man and I are 'ancient' people so we know better. Meanwhile, I saw the perfect pair of shoes ehn...I must blog about those shoes.... stunning!

Anonymous said...

After that lil' one liner dat had me almost booking a flight to Abj, I am glad to find out that some ppl are only now finding out about Ur upcoming nuptials online. does that make me selfish?
I am so proud of you (sounding so mature and all) and HAPPY for you. congrats babes. All Love. A witty Fool.

Sugabelly said...

Wow! Congratulations!! So happy for you!

'Lara A said...

Congratulations...all the best with the planning.

doll (retired blogger) said...

how did i miss this?

Many congratulations

aloted said...

wow! congrats to you!!!

Daughter of Her King said...

This feels like a fairytale..
awwwww babes is off the market. lol
I still like ur personality about things.

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